Reflecting About Lust, Love and Holiness
Distinguishing Lust from Love: A Call to Purity and Purpose
There is a trap to beware of, a trap that has brought down kings and devoured the strength of the mighty. It is lust. The false promise the world glorifies, calling it freedom, and even love. Love? But lust is a counterfeit. It deceives, whispering promises it cannot keep. It offers joy, but in reality, it only brings emptiness, shame, and regret. As 1 John 2:16 warns, "For everything in the world - the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life - comes not from the Father but from the world." Lust is not love, and those who fall into its grasp are deceived. I am deceived. You are deceived. Are you ready for a change?
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The difference between lust and love is important to understand. At first glance, the two may appear similar, but their paths lead to vastly different destinations. Lust is rooted in selfishness and egoism. It is a hunger driven by fleeting desires, constantly craving what is seen, yet it cares nothing for the soul. Lust is impatient, seeking immediate gratification without concern for the lasting cost. Lust promises excitement and fulfillment, but once it gets what it desires, It abandons. To us who indulge in it, lust leaves us alone with guilt, shame, and brokenness. How often did you experienced it on your own?
Love, however, is selfless. It is the force that builds, honors, and protects. True love is not self-serving but seeks the well-being of others. Love brings peace because it is rooted in God, who is the source of all love. Unlike lust, love is not quick to take. It is patient, kind, and long-suffering. Where lust destroys, love builds. Where lust empties, love fills with joy and fulfillment.